by Gilda Bonanno
It’s back-to-school season. Students of all ages are heading into classrooms and college students are beginning a new semester. But this time of year is also a good reminder for the rest of us: learning shouldn’t end when formal schooling does.
One of the most important skills you can develop in your career isn’t technical - it’s your ability to learn.
Pay Attention to the Voice in Your Head
When something feels hard, many of us hear a familiar internal voice:
· I’m stupid.
· This is too hard for me.
· I’m just not good at math.
· I’m not creative.
Many of the limits we accept about ourselves come from outdated messages: one bad class, one critical comment, one comparison to someone else. Over time, those moments turn into labels and labels quietly shrink our opportunities. Struggle is not a sign of stupidity; it’s a sign that you’re learning.
Replace Labels with Curiosity
A growth mindset asks us to be more careful with the language we use especially with ourselves. Instead of saying “I’m bad at this,” try asking:
· What don’t I understand yet?
· What could I learn here?
· Who could help me think this through?
This shift matters because growth-minded people don’t avoid difficulty. They expect it. They embrace challenges, persist through setbacks, and seek mastery rather than approval. They understand that intelligence and ability are not fixed traits but they can be developed through effort, feedback and experience.
Here’s the truth: most career-defining abilities are skills, not talents. Writing, analysis, communication, creativity, leadership and technical skills can all be learned. You may not love every challenge, but don’t opt out simply because something is uncomfortable or unfamiliar.
Learn Everywhere, All the Time
Learning doesn’t only happen in classrooms. In fact, some of the most meaningful learning happens outside formal settings, through experience, observation and experimentation.
To learn as much as you can:
· Get out of your comfort zone
· Learn through formal and informal programs
· Learn on the job and on your own
· Ask questions, read widely, listen carefully and observe
· Be curious and creative
· Ask for help
· And replace self-limiting labels with the belief, “I can figure this out.”
That belief, more than any credential, will shape your career. And that mindset will serve you long after any single role or title has changed.
© Gilda Bonanno LLC - Gilda Bonanno serves as a trusted advisor to executives and entrepreneurs to transform their communication, presentation and leadership skills. She has worked with companies on 4 continents, from Chicago to Shanghai and Rio to Rome. The instructional videos on her YouTube channel have received over 1.5 million views and her e-newsletter has reached subscribers in over 45 countries since 2008. For other articles or to receive Gilda's e-newsletter, visit www.gildabonanno.com